January 2008

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In this Issue:

  • Feature Article: Trojan Horses
  • Intentions: for Leader, People, Free Spirit & Task Type Personalities
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Trojan Horses

A recent article in the Investor’s Business Daily featured an article titled “Do Bosses Make Workers Leave?” The article discussed a recent Yahoo Hot.Jobs satisfaction survey. This article certainly did not shed any new light on what it takes to keep valued workers. But it did confirm what human resource professionals and others who work with employee engagement have known for years. “People do not leave jobs, they leave managers.

Of those responding to the survey, 72% reported that they were open to new jobs in 2008. 43% of those blamed their boss’s management style or lack of mentorship.  Although salary and growth potential are important, they take second place  to  management practices, with respect to what good employees are looking for. Qualities that employees are looking for include fair and sympathetic attitude and ability to make the employee feel valued. Over 70% of respondents said that they prefer a “hands-off’ manager who trusts them to do their job.

How does this report reconcile with the current statistics regarding what has been termed an “epidemic” of  “bully bosses?”  According to recent research by Zogby, found on Gary Namie’s website, The workdoctor.com, over 50 million people have experienced bullying in the workplace. This translates to lost millions in potential profits. These managers are essentially Trojan Horses within their companies.

Why? Because unhappy, harassed, intimidated employees,  are less productive, less engaged, and more likely to leave, get sick, or sabotage company goals. Bully bosses, and bosses with poor management skills, may look good on the outside. Perhaps they get quick results. Perhaps they have an illustrious background. But once you bring them inside, watch out! They begin their destruction one employee at a time, and soon, profits are bleeding out the back door.

The good news is, this dilemma can be detected through employee engagement surveys and management 360’s.  Strong policies and good training can help turn around the situation.  If you are experiencing poor retention, low morale, increased absenteeism and a rise in medical costs, find the root cause. Identify the Trojan Horses in your corporation. Resolve  to have a more productive and profitable workplace in 2008.


Intent (In tent') 1. Firmly directed; earnest. 2. Having one's attention or purpose firmly fixed.

Intention (in ten' shen) 1. determination to act in a specific way.




Personal Intentions for the month of January

LEADER INTENTION

  • I like to lead and manage others. Working with people makes up a large part of what I do on a daily basis.

  • Sometimes I hear myself saying, “I like my job, but I don’t like working with people.”

  • Now I know that developing people skills may be a challenge for me. I realize that I cannot be a great leader or a supportive family member if I don’t interact well with people.

  • Today I intend to be more aware of how I interact with others. I will criticize less. I will affirm and praise more. I will be a better listener. I intend to develop better interpersonal skills. 

PEOPLE INTENTION

  • I am creative. I enjoy expressing my creativity in many ways.
  • Sometimes I do not allow myself the time to engage in the things that I love to do. It seems that there are too many needs to be met and things to do. Family, friends and work seem to eat up my time.
  • Now I realize that I will not be my best if I ignore my strengths. I will be my best if I engage in and utilize my strengths daily, or at least as frequently as possible.
  • Today I intend to value my creativity. I will decide which of my creative abilities to engage in. I intend to schedule some time for myself and develop my creativity.

FREE SPIRIT INTENTION

  • I admit that self-discipline is not my strong suit. I like to do what I want, and have trouble sticking to things that I don’t really want to do at the moment.

  • Sometimes I make a decision to be healthier with my eating and exercising habits, but I fall off the track pretty quickly. Other times, I put a plan in place that is really not realistic for me.

  • Now I realize that sticking to it is more difficult for me than for some people so I have to work harder at it. I also realize that if I develop a realistic plan, knowing my personality traits, that I will be able to follow through more easily.

  • Today I intend to examine my health habits and determine whether I need to make changes. I will put a plan in place that is realistic and workable.

TASK INTENTION

  • I believe that getting into an argument about something is a waste of time. In fact, I am very uncomfortable with heated discussions. I will avoid them if possible.

  • Sometimes I have a disagreement with someone and I refuse to discuss it. I won’t bring it up, and if they do, I walk away or say it is irrelevant.

  • Now I realize that this pattern interferes with meaningful relationships. One or both of us stays irritated or builds resentment, even if we say everything is OK.

  • I intend to face my discomfort with conflict or disagreement. I will learn ways of discussing issues that are productive and lead to resolution. I intend to build stronger relationships through resolving problems.

SUCCESS. . .

The personality trait or Achilles Heel that most interferes with my success is: ___________________________________________________

This trait impacts my work performance by: ______________________

This trait impacts my personal success by: _______________________

This trait particularly interferes with: _____________________________

When I overcome this Achilles heel I will be able to: _________________

This will improve my health and well being by: ____________________

This will improve my performance at work by: _____________________

The person most impacted by this change will be: _________________

The learned strength that will replace and help me overcome this Achilles heel is: _______________________________________________________

For the next seven days I will focus on developing this learned strength. Every day, I intend to practice one of the following:

1. ____________________________________________________________

2. ____________________________________________________________

3. ____________________________________________________________

4. ____________________________________________________________

5. ____________________________________________________________

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